Jennifer Lopez Sex Tape Scandal – Lessons for Singles and Married Couples

By April Braswell, Dating Expert and Online Dating Coach

The current Jennifer Lopez Sex Tape Scandal which has the world abuzz provides a tremendous lesson for both dating singles and married couples.

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The sex tape scandal involves Lopez’s honeymoon antics with her first husband, Ojani Nao. Jennifer Lopez has been married 3 times and is presently married to Marc Anthony with whom she has fraternal twin children.

Marriages may come and go, your divorced spouse is forever.

For singles, remember that the person you are dating now, in evolutionary thinking, will be in the community tribe in your area after you break up should you not marry each other. Whatever you say, whatever you do, every photo you take together, will live on in memory and with all of the wonderful electronics toys out there, might have been captured and recorded for posterity. And others in your tribe could hear about it on some level.

Men are highly visually stimulated and are often requesting to photograph or video record intimate moments and intimate moments with their partners. Just know that if you agree, that image is digitally captured and stored on your smart phone or computer. And also know that when it is transferred from mobile device to computer, it goes over the internet. Those images are at risk for being hacked, captured and shared. This can come back to bite you either socially within your community. It could end up in adult oriented groups at MySpace. It could go up on Twitter or someone’s page at Facebook.

For marrieds, you may be darlingly romantically in-love with your spouse or life partner now. However, divorce does end close to 50% of marriages, which does not even include tracking the ending of life partner non-marriage relationships. Many relationships over the years do indeed end. Some amicably and some not so amicably.

Your ex-wife or ex-husband will be your former spouse for the rest of your life. You will have that relationship for many years to come. Be careful.

Protecting Your Children: While talking about intimate topics is something every parent wants to do with their children, having that conversation should be well thought out and planned.

Prenuptial Agreement: If you two agreed to the photo taking and video recording of any of your intimate moments, just remember, these will all be part of the separation and divorce agreement. You might want to include this as a topic in your prenuptial agreement early on while you are feeling amicable and adult in your communications. Least you think, “Oh that could never happen to me, we’re in love,” just remember people do stupid and foolish things while aroused with jealousy or anger which they would not do while behaving rationally and more emotionally calm.

Do be careful, and most of all, protect yourself.

Happy Dating and Relationships,

April Braswell

Las Vegas Baby Boomer Dating Expert

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Online Dating Coach and Preparing for LOVE!

Online Dating Coach Advice about Preparing for LOVE!

In my work as an Online Dating Coach and Romantic Relationship Coach and inculcating for romance and romantic sex relationships, some of the work which I most recommend for my clients is to first start with their communication and personal magnetism skill set.

Irresistible Attraction: Secrets of Personal Magnetism

Irresistible Attraction is about becoming our most attractive in our behavior and interactions with others. The internationally knowned author of the best-seller, The Psychology of Persuasion, Influence and Persuasion master Kevin Hogan coauthored this very approachable book with Mary Lee Labay.

I'm kind of laughing here. Personally, whenever I think of this book, I think of it as like, Personal Magnetism and Attractiveness for the Rest of Us. Not quite the guide for idiots or dummies, but still!

Ok, so you are not actually a sought after celebrity movie star, super model or NFL star quarterback? So, you are not a 10 even a 9. Maybe you are a 7, a 6, or even a 4. In Irresistible Attraction, the authors teach you and provide quite a number of examples of behaviors and communications to have with others to increase your attractiveness quotient and to be more successful in dating.

And indeed, the more successful we are in dating, the greater our chances of finding love and creating a really great romantic relationship. I highly recommend this book to my clients to read and practice before heading out on Date0. It will really help you in your conversations to increase your attractiveness to others. And in romance, we all want to be more magnetically attractive, don't we? In which case, yup, go buy this book now.

All the best,

April Braswell

Online Dating Expert, Romantic Relationship Coach, Romance Coaching

Online Dating Sites Review, Internet Dating Sites Guide

Dating Coach Provides Online Dating Sites Review

Hi! As a Dating and Relationship Coach in the 21st century, men and women frequently ask me about ways to leverage Online Dating and want to know, "April, what're the BEST Online Dating Sites?"

Indeed, which Internet Dating Sites are the best?


Well, the answer to the pressing question DEPENDS. It depends on what're YOU looking for in Looking for Love Online?

do you want to meet singles in Canada? Single Parents in the UK? are you Gay or Lesbian looking for singles wanting a life partner relationship? Or are you a single just wanting to spice up your sex life for right now?

The answer depends on the question I always first ask my Dating, Romance, and Relationship Coaching Clients. What do YOU want?

To meet that huge variety of needs, indeed, I've been gathering an Internet Dating Sites Review, you might say, and Internet Dating Sites Guide.

So, when YOU answer that question for yourself, well, there are so many good sites available, you'll have several to choose from!

Have fun and play safe!

All the best,

April Braswell

Dating Online?

In my work as a Romance Coach and Online Dating Coach, people ask me, "April, what is it like, Dating Online?"

Check here regularly and I will share my tips and tricks!

Enjoy!

April Braswell
Romance Coach, Online Dating Coach